What should I do ?
Today my fiance got upset with me because he asked me what day it was yesterday and said Wednesday and I just found out about an hour ago that it wasn't. When he asked me I asked why and he said just wondering. So fast forward today he was saying it was Thursday and I completely forgot about him asking me yesterday since I thought it wasn't a big deal and I said its Friday. He got super annoyed and started saying I knew I shouldn't have trusted you and just double checked. He put the blame all on me and said I ruined plans that he needed to do and he didn't check the date because he trusted me. Then he started yelling out of frustration saying things to me about not trusting me and that I ruined his plans. He tends to do this a lot. He's right. He should have checked. I am a forgetful person and its not on purpose. I sometimes don't know the day and I'm clumsy. I told him he needs to stop speaking to me this way. Then he goes that I care about my feelings and how he made me feel and not about how I ruined his plans and don't own up to my mistakes . I did even say that I didn't even realize it. Etc. Idk what to say or do because he closed off. I guess he might even tell his sister and family about this as well and put the blame on me. Idk what to say or do anymore . It seems small but there has been multiple arguments like this. Where I mess up and he gets frustrated and talks to me like I'm not this or that or I'm a child
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