My man is not trying to make an effort to fix the rough patch we're in like he literally just says "it'll pass" like no dude if you think something is wrong or off we need to actively work on it and fix it and tbh the only thing he's trying to "fix" is my appearance. He thinks buying me more makeup and me wearing more makeup will fix our relationship. And me doing my hair and dressing cute is how to get him to magically be happy. Like he rarely showers and doesn't do jack about his appearance sooo... Then says "well I'm an attractive guy" ummmmm wtf. And the few times I've attempted talking about it he's like no nothing in our lives needs to change I'll get over it and then it turns into an argument bc he thinks I am being unreasonable and naggy bc I am actively trying to improve our marriage. I literally haven't nagged him on anything or pressured him or have done anything but be sweet bc I know he's stressed. My opinions and goals and literally everything is irrelevant to him it seems. It's like why am I trying and you aren't? Ugh