Just need someone to talk to😔

For the last two years me and my husband have been TTC baby #1. I'm 22 and hes 27 both relatively healthy (both slightly overweight) we both have active jobs so I would consider us to healthy!?!

When we decided to start TTC in October 2018 we both thought by christmas we would be telling everyone the great news!! No one ever told us how hard it is to get pregnant😩 even studying child development in secondary school (here in the uk) we were always told if you dont use contraception you will get pregnant straight away. If only...

From day 1 we thought we would keep it to ourselves as it's no one else's business but as the months and years go by it gets harder and harder, all our family and friends are just falling pregnant so easily and without knowing rubbing it in our faces (which I dont blame them as they dont know). Now ever since we got married earlier this year everyone is constantly asking us when we are having a baby, why am I not pregnant yet, 'common Leah it's been 7 months now why arent you pregnant' if only they knew the struggle we are facing.

We have finally bit the bullet and seeked a doctors help, but now I'm just so scared with the outcome. Am I going to be able to have babies, is it me? Is it my husband? Its getting harder and harder as the days go by and i have no one to talk apart from my husband. Is anyone else going through this?