NEVER orgasmed 🙈

Ok ladies... total newbie with this kind of stuff. I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I’ve never been able to orgasm. Never in my life. Idk what to even expect it to feel like. He massages my clit and it feels good but after a while it gets really sensitive where he has to stop.

I just purchased a highly rated massager from Walmart to try. Any advice? Help a girl out 😫