But why wait?

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Me and my husband want another baby. BUT he want us to start trying after new years... 
Why? He dont have any good reason! 
He just wants to wait. 
Well I say let’s start now?! 
Why? Because I have endometriosis and its not so damn easy for me to become pregnant! And I have more issues with pain and shit when im off the pill ... so I just want to start the journey now’ 🤦🏼‍♀️ 
Ugh I’m so upset, is that wrong?
Should add; we both have steady jobs and hella good income. Another baby will not make us move either. I don’t know what the problem is...
Last time we ttc it took 18 months. 
And I was miserable every damn cycle. 
Our little one is soon 2 years 😍

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If you both want another baby i don’t actually see where two ish months makes a big difference.

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Your not wrong, both of you need to sit down and talk to each about how you feel on this matter.

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Yeahh, def sit down and talk it over, maybe it ends up being you getting off the pill not prevent pregnancy and see what happens. then after the new year start actively trying and testing for ovulation and what not? 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Sitdown and talk! I understand your feelings and I see where you come from. Talk to him :)

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You’re not wrong. How old is your oldest?
Jobs and finances secure or is he nervous?

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Neither of you are wrong.

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It doesn't even matter at this point, January is 3 months away..what's the difference of 3mo..men I swear lol. You need to tell him that you more than likely won't get pregnant right away, and you two need that extra time. The ONLY reason is if he was having some depression or is stressed..everyone does their "new year resolutions" so maybe he wants a fresh start..idk.

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