Am I being rude?

This guy is taking me out on a date (our first date) and it was suppose to be a surprise but I convinced him to tell me so I can know how to dress. 2 concerns

1. He’s younger than me he’s 20 (turning 21 in Nov) I’m 24 turning 25 in November but when we’re out I’d like to get a drink.

Idk if he’ll feel less of a man since he can’t

& two

The place he’s taking me is boujee, definitely fancy. I’m the most basic girl, I love going to a sports bar, that’s more than enough for me.

I appreciate the gesture so SO much but is it wrong to ask if we can go somewhere less “maintenance”. It’s not about the money it’s just that.. if I’m being honest with you girls, no ones ever took me on a romantic date and I feel in a way intimidated and why me? It’s too much for me to accept

Idk why I feel this way