Who would you believe ?

Question

6 weeks ago I had a baby and due to COVID I wasn’t allowed any visitors so my partner had to drop me some stuff to the hospital.
He came with my 16 year old sister one day his 22.
She says while they was in the car on the way he made some really inappropriate comments to her like “strip for me “ he owed my mum some money and he had no change to give so he said to her “if you twerk for me you can keep it all” and asked her if he turns her on. Also he apparently made a comment about her bum when she got out the car 
Obviously she told me as soon as she could 
He is denying it calling her a liar swearing he never said but she is swearing that he did.
Who would you believe it’s really stressing me out 😭

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Your sister what reason does she have to lie

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Unless your sister is known to make stuff up and has it out for you, I would believe her. Those seem really specific comments she is saying he said to her.  If he is going for her chances are he may have already cheated on you or will at some point. Plus she is 16, even if it is the age of consent he has no business checking her out and making those comments to her.

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You have to have to be able to make that judgement call bc you know how both of them are. Sad but usually it is the guy, but not always. If she is not known to be a liar and make things up, I’d def believe her. Sorry you’re going through this love🙏🏽

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Are you the same person who revealed your sister came on to your husband awhile ago when you first announced your pregnancy when you guys convinced him to take her for a walk and sober her up? This sounds very familiar. One of them is lying. Either she is wanting it or he’s encouraging it...or both. The fact she’s 16, though, ew.

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Your sister has no reason to lie unless she has serious problems with you or is completely crazy or on drugs - all of which you would already know. If your sister is a fairly typical 16 yo she has no reason to lie. 
Your SO on the other hand has every reason to lie. He would lose his relationship with you and be labeled a pedo if he doesn’t deny it. 
So just looking only at these facts, I’d say it is much much much more likely your sister is telling the truth and your SO is a lying pervert.

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I would believe ur sister as she has no reason to lie id pack his bags and tell him to leave i wouldnt believe his lies

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