Did he have the right to shout at me?🥦

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I made a delicious and healthy dinner for my husband. He does not eat any fruit (will eat lemon) at all and barely eats vegetables. I put some broccoli on his plate, then added a more, he said no and I said oh just a bit more. He hit the roof and yelled at me and claims I do not respect him. I have since then explained I just dd it out of care to make sure he has enough vitamins and that all he had to do was calmly tell me not to do that. He has been awful, did not say sorry but continued to be horrible and watch football and completely ignore me. Upset. I was already stressed and anxious today as ttc getting me down and work tomorrow etc- this dinner really cheered me up and then boom- ruined and eating with stomach in knots. 
Is he right to be so angry or not?
Here is the dinner made:

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He shouldn’t of shouted at you but he had already told you no and you proceeded to put more after the fact.

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Stop cooking for him and tell him to fend for himself. What grown adult doesn’t eat vegetables? Then throws a tantrum about it?

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Sounds like my 4 year old nephew 
He needs to grow up

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On the flip side of this my husband has put food on my plate that I have told him numerous times that I don’t eat/don’t like. While he shouldn’t have yelled he is a grown adult and if he has already told you he doesn’t like something stop pushing it he is your husband not your child.

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He shouldn’t have yelled, but he DID calmly tell you no at first and you didn’t. Still, he’s acting like a complete child.

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you’re both wrong, he shouldn’t have yelled and you should’ve listened when he told you no.

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First of all he doesn't have the right to yell at you, he could've just walked away. That's a red flag for me. 
When things calm down, you can talk to him about his health and diet, tell him you're concerned. 
But stay off his plate. What you did was infantilizing. You're not his mother, he can serve his own plate and decide what he wants to eat.

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He definitely shouldn’t shout. But he DID tell you no. He probably felt like you were treating him like a child. Which you were. I get that you want him to eat healthier, but he is a grown man who gets to choose for himself.

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He’s in the wrong. My fiancé is the same way. He wanted me to make him ramen, and I said I’d only make it if broccoli was put in it 🤷🏻‍♀️ He ate it with broccoli. (It was a beef flavor so ideally it was like beef & broccoli). He didn’t get upset, and When I stood my ground he didn’t get upset. He eats a lot of junk food, so I have to make him eat healthy foods at times especially because he’ll be setting an example for our child soon since I’m due in December. 
I even asked him about this post and he said he shouldn’t of gotten upset and that’s a males opinion.

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I understand he yelled out of frustration because you’re being pushy and sounds like you’re being his mom than wife. He should’ve kept telling you no in a nicer way and you should’ve backed off if you know he doesn’t like those things. You can’t force a grown ass man to eat healthy foods.

Did he have the right to shout at me?🥦

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