Help! Please

Sa

Okay so I just had my rainbow on October 24th. He was three days early but so teeny tiny at 5.4. Ive veen trying to breastfeed since day 1 but he won't latch. So I supplement with formula and pump. Im still trying to get him to latch and I feel like a failure that I cant breastfeed him. My husband just says im not trying hard enough and it's something thats so easy to do. He doesn't understand that I am trying and its just not working. Ive spent the whole day crying and he just keeps telling me to stop giving up and being a quitter. He really doesn't understand how hard it is. Please help me. Im calling in the morning to make an appointment with the lactation consultant.