I just need someone to tell this to.

Ko

So I found out I’m pregnant just recently. I was a month off of my iud and on birth control pills during that time. I can’t use condoms because of a latex allergy and the other condoms we tried kept rolling off of my husband and would get stuck inside of me. My husband was very upset when I told him I was pregnant. He blamed me for it and told me he couldn’t trust me anymore. A day later he apologized to me and said that what he told me was uncalled for. We currently live in his moms basement with our 1 year old boy. He and I are not on good terms because of things he has done in the past (cheating, trying to leave me after I had just given birth, and told me he doesn’t love me anymore). I gave him one last chance to work on our relationship before I decide to get a divorce. Like I literally have the divorce papers printed and ready to be filled out to be filed. I plan on keeping the baby. But I have seen that people who got pregnant right off their iud being taken out ended up having a chemical pregnancy. So I’m worried and stressed. I take care of my son at home and go to work part time (almost full time) on the weekends and in the middle of the week,so I should be able to afford the doctors appointments. This all just kinda sucks because I feel like I can’t tell anyone. His mom is super judgmental. When we told her about our first baby, she said to us, I have no comments about this. She didn’t even congratulate us. I can’t tell my parents because they will lecture me for hours about how I’m not able to afford this and will remind me about how unstable my relationship is. I honestly don’t know what I’m going to do. I will eventually start looking pregnant. My husband doesn’t want to move out either because we are saving money and paying off debt. I just don’t want the added stress of crappy family to this pregnancy and to my relationship. I’m at a loss of what to do. I am excited that I am pregnant, but I don’t want anything to put me down and make me feel bad about choosing to keep this baby.

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