Being a Brat

I'm a Brat....I recently made it clear to my hubby that I want him to be the Dom/daddy. Sex was getting a bit vanilla and I feel its important to be open about sexand what we like and stuff if we're gonna spend forever together lol anyway... He's a little...um.. Still vanilla? 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️ lol he's great in bed but the foreplay is just off... Anyone got any tips on how you get him a little more comfortable? If there's no flow then it feels forced and weird. Like we're trying too hard.