Vagina shaving break? Good for it?

Does anyone know if it’s good to give your vagene a break from shaving time to time? For the remainder of November I decided not to shave because I got mad ingrown hairs and little dark spots. In respect to tiktok for helping, I realized I’d been shaving wrong. I never exfoliated, I wouldn’t really use anything other than a little bit of soap to shave. Most times I’d dry shave (only using water) and afterwards I wouldn’t moisturize. Yikes I know. I’m now realizing how badly I treated my vagene. So is it a good idea to let it grow out a bit and not bother her for a bit? Also is it okay to exfoliate her 2x a week I heard its good to let her go through a recovery and love type of moment? Also I REALLY appreciate any shaving tips and preparations for shaving seeing as I would legit slaughter her the poor thing. PLEASE and thanks, I’d appreciate it lol