Did I nut? Did I get off? How do know?

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Okay so....
I have been sexually active for years now, and I know this is going to sound crazy, but I don’t know if I’ve ever... came. 
In my head I tell myself... I would know, but I don’t know. I don’t feel like I have. What is it supposed to feel like? What is my body supposed to do? I know everybodies body is different... but I honestly don’t think I have. Cause I would know, right? So have I not been having sex? Like everytime... they get there’s and I’m like... hmmm, yea, that felt good😂 it just felt like we started.... but I didn’t finish.
Can someone help? No negative comments either, I really want to know🙄

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Your body will literally feel like this.
You’re going to the top of the highest roller coaster then flying down.
You’ll just kind of be paralyzed after 😂

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I feel like it’s not something that can really be explained. If you have to ask if it happened then it probably didn’t

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Your vagina’s muscle or walls will tighten and release and tighten by itself without you doing anything (like a kegel) those you do yourself, but when you orgasm your vagina will engorge with blood as it becomes stimulated and finally at the peak your walls will tighten and release over and over for anywhere from 5-10 seconds. You will feel a concentrated tingly and VERY pleasurable feeling. You’ll definitely KNOW When you’ve orgasmed. This is more of a scientific explanation lol the feeling is inexplicably awesome. Try self stimulation to see how your body likes to be touched.

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I read this & started to think back (wayyy back) to my first sexual encounters... I’ve got a pretty solid personal Before I “knew” that I’d definitely had an orgasm vs. after it clicked fir me-Idk if this will help you (but maybe it’ll help *someone*). 
 So the first guy I had sex with (my bf at the time—and I’ll admit I was very young...TOO young!)- I remember the first like week after the first time, we did it multiple times a day (mostly because he wanted to, but I was okay with it—it wasn’t rape or any sort of sexual assault), but I did notice as the week went on, I’d be really excited (Horny) for the first time, but then later times (within the same day) I’d be like “meh...ok...”
I didn’t put 2 and 2 together until embarrassingly later.. it was because if we were having sex 2-3 times in a 5-hour period of time, for example, I was having an orgasm during the first ‘round,’ and my body wasn’t responding to 2nds & 3rds the way his was because I’d already gotten off and for me, personally, that was about all my body could do (the 1 orgasm) in a 5-hour period of time.
The next guy I hooked up with (was like a year later—and we didn’t have sex-just for the sake of clarity) was at a party & we were making out & I definitely remember this as my big ‘ah-ha’ moment... he just took his fingers and lightly brushed over my lady parts OVER my jeans and I remember so vividly being in my head like “oh shit,” because I felt like I was going to totally lose it/lose control/pee my pants—or just burst so I tightened my kegel muscles as much as I could to “stop” (feeling so out of control)—it definitely reigned in my orgasm, but I definitely did not avoid it all together either, but the guy I was with had no idea...and as he kept lightly stroking me over my jeans, my body was not responding like it had been (it felt like “ok..enough, I’m good now”), but in my head, I was totally putting pieces together and was exactly like that blonde lady doing math meme ... and I finally figured it ALL OUT! From the first boyfriend/sex times to my body not being stimulated in like a year (I didn’t masturbate till college—and this was definitely before college), to what I actually “held back” each (1st) time with my ex to why I went from 0-100 with the 2nd guy at that party after like a minute of very light stimulation... I’d been depriving myself of the major release of having an orgasm, by trying to hold it in/hold back! 
After I put all this together and realized I wasn’t actually going to-you know, blow up (or pee my pants, etc), I began to just relax, let it come in like a wave 🌊, and enjoy the Major wave’s ‘crash’ & enjoyed riding it out to shore.. pretty much exactly like an ocean wave...in 3 pretty distinct parts.
Sorry if this doesn’t help you—or if it’s confusing— trying to write from a memory that’s over 20 years old!

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You but/the entire heap will shake uncontrollably as if you’re tweaking while on your knees and he’s coming from the back:behind you. This is my favorite position to orgasm. I normally have an amazing feeling that will send me to sleep after the orgasm process is over. I wake up with clear head and very fresh in the morning, as happy as I’ve ever been.
At least that has been my experience.

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I didn’t know for ages!! everyone always says you’ll know but i honestly didn’t, but then it occurred to me that the intensity i was experiencing was probably an orgasm, and the more i experienced it the more sure i was. it’s when you’re just enjoying sex but suddenly you start shaking and your whole body tenses up and you’re just there for a while but then it goes away. you breathe out and you’re a bit dead, but you feel really like peaceful. that’s just how it is to me but honestly i relate to not knowing. ❤️

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Learn to get yourself there, it’ll be easier with your partner and he’ll both of you, in knowing what you like/need. It’ll be better all around! And no “meh’s” more like “f**ckkkkk*

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You would definitely know girl, its very clear. Before I met my husband I always told myself “maybe that was the big O” but it definitely  was NOT 😆 it’s like a warm feeling all over your body and an explosion of sensations in the best way. The gif above describes it perfectly haha so if you have to ask, you probably have not. I’d recommend getting a vibrator and trying yourself so you know what you’re looking for! It will change sex for the better, I promise.

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Get a vibrator, you’ll know what It feels like after a few mins 😉

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I use to have the same type of question, you’ll definitely know! My body starts to shake uncontrollably...it’s so hard to put into words but you’ll definitely know!!!

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