I'm 39, and my first pregnancy ended in MC in May. I went in for bleeding, and there was a gestational sac, but no fetus. Well, I'm 9 weeks now, started spotting yesterday and thought it was going to be the same thing again. I went in this morning and omg. There's actually a baby in there! I thought for sure that my body would always fail me and I'd never get pregnant. The bleeding has stopped. Doctor says baby looks normal and healthy. I don't even have any symptoms so it's still.so hard to believe it's really real. Any Ramzi theories on sex?