Big question gotta see if I’m wrong

Alanique

my grandma my bestie right ... so I give birth in December hopefully and my grandmother said she can’t be there so I said ok ... so I feel like if my grandmother can’t be there no one should be why? Because why should anyone else get that special moment if she can’t ... TOLD MY BABY FATHER MOTHER THAT SHE GOT A ATTITUDE AND STARTED MOVING FUNNY AND ALLAT .. I’m wrong ? 🤔