My boyfriend said he wants to have a baby with me... but I don’t want to have a kid yet. He was talking about the future after we get married. I know i’m going to be grown but like a KID! I’m scared. He want to have a kid when he come back home he will be going off to the navy soon but he don’t want to have a baby after basic training he wanna wait for a lil bit longer and then have a baby with me. Idk. Y’all. I love this man so much... I just don’t want to lose him just because I don’t want to have kids with him. Kids are a lot to deal with.