How do I squirt??

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Okay so, I'm 19 and after many years of masturbating, I've never made myself squirt. When I'm alone I haven't even gotten close to it, but when I'm with my boyfriend and he fingers me I feel like I'm really close to squirting. Things is, I'm always too shy to let it out since, I literally have never done it :/
PLEASE help a girl out and tell me your tips/tutorials on making yourself squirt.

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PSA: NOT EVERY WOMAN CAN SQUIRT.
Female ejaculation isn't a biological requirement for reproduction, and so it's kinda just like how men have nipples but they don't really have any function.
We all start off as 'female' (or a version of) in the womb untill about 6 weeks into gestation. Then, a blast of masculinizing hormones comes in and differentiates the XX and XY genetic material. After that, the universal hardware organizes itself into either a female or male configuration.
And so since nipples are required to sustain and carry on the mammalian species that we are, evolution and biology thought it would be easier to stick to the 'pre-fab' nipple thing then try to actively suppress them in the development of male babies.
Anyways, it's a biological byproduct is what I'm trying to say. No matter who or how much a culture makes of it, not every woman does it, and that's ok.
We women have a set of glands at the opening of our urethra called the 'Skene's glands'. They are the homologous to the prostate in men. 
What the Skene's glands do is swell around the urethra to make it difficult to pee during arousal. That's their only function in women, basically.
The prostate has two jobs: it swells around the urethra to make it impossible to urinate while aroused, and then it produces a good amount of the seminal fluid in which the sperm travels with. So basically it makes ejaculate.
In some women, the Skene's glands produce fluid. That's female ejaculation. That's it. You can or you can't. Some women's Skene's Glands don't. Don't be mad at your gentals if you can't, because it doesn't really do anything biologically anyway. 🤷‍♀️
(The Skene's Glands don't, however, produce the fluid when aroused, or in the street terms 'getting wet'. Different glands do that.) 👍

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I’ve only squirted when having sex with my girlfriend and I never know when it happens (just feels like an orgasm to me) but she’ll tell me. Let go of it as a goal and just be excited if it happens as a surprise! Your body is already doing amazing things, celebrate it for that.

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Here’s what’s worked for me. 
1. Use a vibrator, switch up the stimulation between the clitoris and the g-spot, especially focusing on the area in between where you feel the pressure that feels like you want to pee.
2. Let that pressure build up and don’t fight it or freak out. Just go with the flow.
3. Relax, try to angle your pelvis downward to make the pressure rise to the max and get the tool to stimulate even better.
4. Rotate your pelvis back up and relax while helping to push out the squirt by pushing out with your muscles. Don’t contract and try to fight it from coming out, that’s your body thinking its pee.
 
Lastly, hydrate yourself well before each session!

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I stick my fingers in two knuckles deep, curve them upwards, and gently rub in this motion 👇🏼 till I feel like I need to release

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a lot of girls just can’t squirt.

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it feels like pee because it IS pee. Many are gonna disagree and say it’s not pee, bc I used to think the same and argue w people who told me it was, so I did my research and came to the conclusion that it’s just watered down pee. Sometimes it does contain some female ejaculation but it’s still mixed with your pee :/ if you google what it is, all the results tell you that it’s a little female ejaculate mixed w water and urine. but hey if you’re into that do whatever you want! If you’re/your partner is into it then keep doin your thing. I’ve done it once and hated it bc it was messy and too much cleanup, just not my thing lol I’d rather just orgasm

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Unlike what people have been saying in the comments, there is one hand position proven to work in just about everyone. Make your hand into the shape of “I love you”, aka 🤟. Insert it so the pinky finger and index finger are pointed down, the ring and middle finger inside you. Feel for an area around the the top of the entrance that’s very soft and squishy, that’s the area you’re aiming for. Then curl your fingers upwards and move in and out as fast as you can. Works pretty well

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No need to be shy! Let go of those worries and you can squirt. But also remember not everyone has the capability of squirting and that’s okay!

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I think just something some women do and some women don’t. Doesn’t make you any less sexy tho

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Some girls just don’t squirt in an orgasm!

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