Do i message him??

So me and this guy were seeing each other as friends for a while and obviously we ended up doing it, but he made it clear from the start were just friends (we spoke previously but because of corona it didn’t work out) and we have just been vibing up until he met this girl. OUT OF THE BLUE?!? Anywaysss, Theres this feature on Snapchat where you can have private stories so only a specific few can see, and i was on his and he was on mine, but he left it and removed me from his. So, I thought okay well i take it him and this girl are going A okay, was a bit disappointed cause he was showing signs that he liked me (i liked him but too pussy to tell him due to him saying we’re just friends and I didn’t wanna get mugged off) but he would suggest date type things like drive in cinema, pick me up at 2am from a party I didn’t wanna be at, hold my hand out in public, so i took it as he liked me but just moved on to her to distance himself from me.

SO NOW, out the blue he added me back to his private story, and i asked one of his girl mates to check up on him cause i dont wanna come across as slimey if him and this girl are serious. So, he said ‘i dont know how i feel atm my heads all over the place’ and she asked why? And he said his new girl is flirting with men behind his back and slagging him off to her friends and he said if it carries on he’s ending things with her. so to me, he added me back because he wants to end things with her and come back to me. But, as a friend i wanna message him to see if hes okay :(