Anyone else not want a baby shower and been buying almost everything by their self?

Not due until April, but with COVID and a few other things I’ve advised my husband and friends I don’t want a shower. My husband has been supportive, my friends not so much. My husband and I set a budget and I plan to buy all the big stuff I need within the next week. 1/2 of my wish list has been bought by us already. This is our second baby, so I feel it’s a little different.