Not compatible

1. His penis is small and he had EDD and he doesn't want to have sex. We've had sex maybe 8 times for this year. I've been begging for sex and he is always tired. And when we do try he can't get hard or stay hard like tonight. It sucks. I just want good sex sometimes. I'm tired of his useless dick.

2. We are year #6 trying and no baby. We started ivf last year and he's basically like we don't need to have sex, ivf will take care of that. That doesn't make sense

I don't know, maybe it's the frustration talking but I think sex is gonna break our relationship. We are already living as roommates anyhow since there is no intimacy.