Should I Say Something?

Noël • Registered Nurse • 28 •

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 5-6 months. We get along really well and can have healthy debates about pretty much anything. But lately something has been bothering me and I’m unsure if I should even address it... he had an ex gf who he was with for about 3 years, and they broke up in 2018... prior to him and I, I was in a 6 year relationship that ended in February of 2020. Now I don’t follow or have my ex on any social media besides Pinterest/Spotify. However my current bf follows his ex on EVERY social media platform to this day (even though he ended things with her). Now I know I’m going to sound insecure and jealous, but I can’t help but feel really upset about it. And I’m just trying to figure out if I should even address it or just leave it alone and deal with my own insecurity by myself?

Note: I think what also upsets me is that he’s talked about a future with me, in the sense that this is it you know? So I guess that’s why it’s just upsetting to see him still holding onto something of the past.

Also like I said I do follow my ex on two social media platforms but that’s something that I would be happy to unfollow if it was reciprocated.

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