Friendship Issues

So I set up my friend and the guy I like(at the time didn’t know my feelings) and they are dating but they both pushed me away. I told the guy that I needed to stop talking to him to focus on myself and now I tried to talk to the girl and she kept asking what was wrong and kept pushing about it until I finally told her and she asked why I thought she would be mad and I told her the truth(I’m a very phone at and blunt person) and told her it’s because she has been so moody lately. That night she posted on her story about how people shouldn’t just talk to people to look for “pity and sympathy” and then proceeded to tell someone else how happy she was to be getting support. I unadded her on snap but now idk who is in the wrong and what I should do next as I still haven’t talked to the guy who was my closest friend before.