Am I wrong for acting the way I did ? 🚩

The past 2 trips my bf went on to his hometown he went to see this girl he went to high school with and hid it untill he got back . Mind you the first trip we went up there I went with him and we were around guys all day the moment he goes without me he secretly sees a female then again the next time . We got into many arguments about her even before the trip because he hasn’t seen her since highschool 8 yrs ago but they were friends on Fb and got a lil friendly in her likes when she post inappropriate pics . He even hid a pic of me he posted under friends except her . All before he even went on the trip and seen her .

So he went on this trip 2 days ago for the third time and he told me he was going to see her . So he txt me lmk he was picking her up and on my lunch break at work we video chat and I was able to meet her . Usually he’s with her 2 hours they talk and smoke at the lake . But this trip when I got off work 2 hours after they had already been together 2 hours she was still with them and they were about to meet up with a guy and go get something to eat . I was able to be otp with them an hour and she talked about her problems ask what I would do in her shoes . I was cooking and back home being a mom so I hung up told him call when dinner over . After dinner he txt me saying he’s on the way to the hotel about to sleep . So i wait a lil but then I call him on video chat . He told me he had a good time with the chick but he’s ready to lay down cuz he’s drunk and high and needs to focus on the road I said ok we can fall asleep on the phone and heslike ok but ima call you when I get to the hotel . I say ok and hang up . Something don’t sit right with me because how do you stay at a restaurant , eat, drop off someone and be on the way to your room all in an hour . I call back . I hear her in the back ground saying the plug on the way . I go offf!

I’m like wtf is she still doing in the car it’s almost 9pm . He’s like she wanted to smoke one more time before he hit the road . I’m like why didn’t you say that ? Instead of making it seem like u dropped her off and was heading to the room . Then he wanna say because she went inside to pee and when she came back he was goin tell her he wanted to go to his hotel . But when she got back she wanted to smoke . Apparently in our short video chat he was in her driveway . He wanted to change his lie and say that he was “almost” otw to the hotel . But he told me twice one in txt and one on video chat

And blamed it on being high he got his words confused . So I said fine ok . We both Apologized right he said he seen where I was coming from and I apologized for going off. I Told him it’s getting late . Called at 10pm he was STILL THERE so I’m like wtf why are you still there stop playing with me . He’s like they smoking the weed man just dropped off the stuff I hung up . He called back and he said “what’s the problem with me hanging with my home girl late at night it would be like hanging out with my homeboys ?” I said oh u wanna put on a show huh cuz we can do that . So I said the problem is you in a relationship and u see it’s ok to be with a woman past 8 pm on sum chill shit and h know u got a history of messing up around females when u drunk and high on top of that we had many talks about this girl and how you find her attractive and how u would’ve dated her in school but she wanted to just be cool. And how u hid her from me . Must I go on ? And he’s like I told you that stuff and you wanna throw it back in my face . I hung up . Txt him that I didn’t care anymore cuz I was nice to even let him hang out with her and it was only supposed to have been for 2 hours not 10 . He txt back I was trippn . I called again at 11 he was still there getting re high cuz he lost his high dealing with me in txt . so I broke up with him ....He video calls me at 12:05 am showing he’s in parking lot of the hotel . I hang up in his face . Txt him he can pick up his stuff when he gets back . He said ok .

AM I WRONG ?

I definitely don’t see how I was tripping .

He lied and tried to cover it .

He put me on in the car speaker and tried to clown me in front of her.

And he didn’t go to his room untill a few hours later. Why u with a girl past 9 pm ? (What time is too late for your SO to be out with opposite gender?)

It’s funny because when my bf gave that girl advice he said that her man needed to get his priorities in order and put her first in from of his bm ....yet he couldn’t put me first in front of her ? Smh