lazy partner doing my head in

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I literally feel like i’m living with most laziest man ever, he is self employed so decides when and if to go to work, he has only worked for 1 day in the last 6 weeks. He constantly finds work says he’s going then lets them down on the day with the shittiest excuse or horrible one ie i’m in hospital after falling down the stairs, I on the other hand goes to work and comes home to nothing being not even turning the dishwasher on or loading the tumble dryer and guess what he’s either in bed or in the kitchen smoking drinking and playing on his phone. why am i telling you all this? i guess i just felt i needed to rant sorry :(