So neither of us set a time to go shopping. He was on the roof hanging lights and I was getting ready.... took my time, drank coffee, showered and did my makeup. Not one time did he say he wanted to leave early. I had no idea 🤦‍♀️ I didn’t want the day to be ruined so I went and apologized for taking so long to get ready. I said next time I would make sure to set a time with him. His response was “I want nothing to do with you! You’re selfish! You can hang up your own damn Christmas lights.” We have been to counseling numerous times due to communication issues. He paints me to be the villain but in reality he has major communication issues. I feel the way he talks to me is abusive. He tells me that I should know how to act. It’s just frustrating because I’m trying to implement the tools that we learned in counseling and he just reverts back to old behavior. When I’ve hurt him, his goal is to hurt me back. All of this because I took too long to get ready. Totally sucks and he hasn’t said much to me all day. He’s going Christmas shopping with his mom tomorrow. Today was supposed to be our day. Time for me to evaluate this relationship.