Hey, so title says it all. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years - super open with each other, the trust between us is so strong and this is a fantasy both of us have. I am going through the motions figuring out if I’m bi or not, but regardless I know this would be a super fun experience.

The only thing is...how does this HAPPEN FOR YOU PEOPLE!!

I really don’t want to go online and look like that creepy stereotypical couple looking for a unicorn when all wlw wanna do is find a single gal to fool around with.

Plus, I think we would be better off going with the flow and if it comes around we take that opportunity instead of orchestrating everything online.

So for those of you ladies who have done this, how?

Also I’m SO nervous I’ve never been with a girl before 😭 I think a huge thing for me will be breaking that barrier of friendship and flirting...I’m so used to being like “omg girl you look so hot 🥰” instead of like “damn....you look HOT 😉”...and how do I know they swing that way and won’t think I’m predatory!?!?