okay sooo my husband and i have been trying for a few months and this cycle we had sex on the 19th- 3 days after my last period- and i didn’t think anything of if since it wasn’t a “super fertile” day.. then we passed my fertile week (while having sex during of course) and yesterday i have a random moment of bleeding- 12 days before my expected period, which is pretty regular... it lasted maybe an hour if that. was super light and that was about it. i’m getting negative tests.. posted with this too, (keep in mind i didn’t take the pics till a few hours after i took them cause i got busy and stuff) and i just have a lot of mixed emotions.. should i test again at the end of the week or should i just wait and see if i start my period? i have a friend that is constantly telling me “i know you want this but you need to stop thinking about it and doing all this stuff. it’ll happen when it happens” like okay. but it’s hard. it was so easy for her and i just feel like she doesn’t understand. i have a rough surgery Sept 2019- i had a tumor in my uterus- not cancer- but it was removed and couldn’t even start trying until this august so it’s been extremely emotional for me and my husband because we want to grow our family and it just really pisses me off how this friend is always telling me that i need to not do all this “crazy” stuff to try and get pregnant- like propping your legs up after sex, i’ve heard it works- and she told me i was crazy- and she’s always reminding me “well you’ll understand more when you have kids” like thank you. i’m aware that i’m not a mom yet. thanks for that. and i just feel very lost and depressed. i don’t feel like i have any friends and y’all- i just need advice. i know i REALLY strayed from my original question but y’all- this shit is hard... help.. 🥺