Should I be offended?

Question

My husband made a comment about me being loose down there and he’s the only one I’ve ever had sex with. Should I be offended bc it bothered me and made me cry. And of course it made him mad when I got offended over it and started to cry. Any thoughts?

Accepted Answer

I’d tell him his dick is below average so that’s why he probably feels that way 
No man will ever call me loose and walk away feeling okay lol
Dicks can be small
Vaginas aren’t “loose”

Answer

Girl that’s because he’s jerking himself off with a death grip. If this was me I’d tell him to have fun playing with himself like a little boy and cut him off from all affection and sexual attention until he regretted the day he ever insulted my vagina. Make him pay before you forgive him.

Answer

Him saying something intentionally hurtful and then getting mad at you for feeling sad is big red flag behavior, but small dick energy. I hope you realize he’s an asshole and get to have great sex with some worthy men one day!

Answer

Your vagina "loosens up" when aroused. Its not supposed to be "tight" while having sex. Plus with natural lube, it makes it more slippery so theres less friction. 
Id just tell him it feels loose to him cuz youre comfortable with him and are aroused 🤷‍♀️

Answer

Facts 💯 what everyone else said!! Expecially the death grip comment aha.

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