I found out (in September) my boyfriend physically cheated on me in November of ‘19. I also found out he had been messaging at least two other women behind my back. He tried to continue to lie about it but I knew and essentially forced him to man up and admit it to me. He says it was because I wasn’t giving him attention (total bullshit) and the conversations were never sexual.

Last month we got into an argument because we ran into the woman he was physical with and he didn’t like my reaction. He left me at the restaurant and changed his relationship status to single on Facebook. Although we managed to work through that argument the next day- he still won’t change his status on social media. I do realize Facebook doesn’t define our relationship but given everything that’s happened- it makes me uncomfortable. I have voiced this to him.

I’m finding myself struggling with resentment and anger over everything he has done. I don’t know the best way to handle it in a healthy manner.