I am a stay at home mom and a couple times a year I take on side design projects. My husband has said to me that he works 9-5 and my 9-5 is taking care of the kids. He gets upset if I work on my side projects during the hours of 5-8p as he says this is family time. He says since it’s a second job, that I should work on it only after the kids go to bed at 8p. I would like to work a couple nights a week from 5-8p and after the kids go to bed a couple nights a week. Thoughts?