Any tips?

Soffy💕

I’m scared to insert fingers into my vagina. I’m a virgin and I have only tried it once and it hurt, especially since I wasn’t turned on or anything. It hurt really bad I Could only get the tip of my finger in and had to take it out cause it hurt. I bled a little afterwards and since then I haven’t touched myself there. I just do clitoral stimulation. But I want to start experimenting with my vagina but I’m too scared that it will hurt. This is embarrassing for me because I’m 18 and I’ve never even touched myself there and didn’t know where mine was located until recently. I’ve always known female anatomy and where it is but I had never actually seen mine if that makes sense. Do any of you lovely people with vaginas have any tips? How can I ease into it? Anything will be greatly appreciated💗