My boyfriend of 3 years isn’t too excited about this unexpected new since he just took a job opportunity in another state. They finally gave him a date which just so happens to be my birthday. He didn’t want to go to appointments with me and hasn’t told his family just yet.. I don’t know how to feel but I just want to cry but I want him to take this job. I’ve never knocked anyone of their blessings so I don’t want to make it a problem.