Fear of driving?

I’m 21F and I have an absolute fear of driving, I’m scared to death, it’s so much pressure that I can’t bare to drive. I’ve only driven once and it was for the drivers test. I’m even afraid for my 21M boyfriend to drive because what if something happens to him? I get really bad anxiety just typing this out. My boyfriend wants to move over here for college but I’m afraid of the 30 min drive he’ll have to take for school.

I’m absolutely terrified, too much pressure and so much scary traffic. I want to get over this but all that goes through my mind is “somethings gonna happen, crash, death,”

obviously you can’t live your life without driving.. how can I get over this? It’s extremely affecting me especially for my age..