Tell me there’s hope....

So March 2019 we stopped using birth control and the pic below is how many months we BDed either on or day before/after ovulation. So that’s about 14 months. That’s only based on the app prediction I didn’t use opks. I only used opks just to see if I even ovulate cause I was getting worried and I got positive opks either same day as the app or a day off.

I’m getting sooo depressed and hopeless. I’m 30 husband is 38.... what if it never happens. OB said everything’s fine and to try 6 more months (sex twice a week) before further testing.

Is it hopeless? I mean it should’ve happened once by now no? 😭😭

Also, why do they say sex just twice a week when everyone is tracking with opks? So confused