I know this is negative

Amy Niki • 👼 🌈 👧👶👶 Toddler & twin mom 💗💙💙 YOU are worthy of happiness

I know this is a negative OPK, but wondering when do you guys BD? I’m trying for my second, still breastfeeding my one year old once a day. My last cycle was 35 days long (before baby I had regular cycles). Currently on cycle day 17 and still no positive or even high OPK’s.. my <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android">Glow app</a> had previously predicted tmrw as ovulation day (obviously that was wrong). Premom has been predicting CD 20. I’m also having a hard time deciphering any other ovulation signs since having a vaginal birth and breastfeeding. Cervix and CM are so different now!

We have been BD every 2 days this week as I was expecting to ovulate sooner.. not sure if I should keep it up or wait for a positive OPK. It’s hard when you don’t want to make it feel like a chore but also don’t want to miss your chance. What do you guys do? Anyone else in the same boat?