Who would of thought graduate at 17/18 few years of fun until you turn 21 can legally buy alcohol.

Few more years your 25 five more years your 30 the big 30

I wonder if all your plans came true all your goals

20 to 30 is just ten years that fly by .

I've seen people get noticed for being beautiful for example the influencers, celebrity's, models people who get noticed for being married having a husband that's an achievement they show off "the ring". People who get recognized because of college degree or status at job.

So what happens if you aren't young and beautiful anymore?

What if you graduated highschool and in college met someone who made promises to marry you but he bailed left you engaged, pregnant, in college what now

What happens when you look at couples and think that could of been us had he not chosen to walk away it hurts when the person you chose doesn't choose you.

Its like you feel so lost

Single mother looking around

I see the baby showers full of love gifts when I never had one.

I see the special moments between couples and the small things men do to show they care. I see the moment when a mother gives birth for the first time and her husband is there.

I see the couples where men are loyal and they have love for their significant.

It physically hurts.

I had dreams when I graduated and life goes by so fast

I had teachers, friends, parents tell me that guy is no good I should of known but I listened to his words, promises poetry I saw the marks on his skin when I told him this wasn't working, the threats he'd kill himself if I ever left. Him telling me to stop traveling, stop seeing friends, stop going to college, pressuring me to have sex, listen to your gut instincts.

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What advice do you have as an older sister mentor life experience