i cant orgasm

i’m 19 and have had my fair share of sexual experiences but none of the guys i’ve been with have been able to make me orgasm.

my first boyfriend (took my virginity) tried so much. he literally at one point made me lay flat on the bed and examined my hooha and touched every part of it to see which points make me feel good and even that didn’t work.

he tried different techniques and all of the sexual partners i had after tried different things and i still don’t feel fully satisfied, ever!

i only orgasm when i’m doing it myself.

that being said i still don’t always orgasm.