This is stupid but I get really turned on by feeling wanted by a crush/partner. I love when they prove to me how much they like/love/care for me. Validation, I guess?

Thinking about how I’m worried about my partner finding someone else attractive but in reality, they want you and only you and confess their deep feelings for you. That whole grab by the hips kiss thing to show how much they adore and appreciate you. Maybe it’s just me being insecure but I don’t know. It gets me all excited.

It’s like, I want my partner to prove to me they genuinely want me sometimes....

Another example is them getting jealous about someone else giving me attention and they realize how much they want you and don’t want to lose you.

Is something wrong with me? Help?