So, I just got out of a 20-year relationship where we weren’t having any sex for the last few years. So I have been masturbating (mostly in the shower or with vibrator or dildo) occasionally. But recently I started dating again and have noticed I can’t seem to come anymore.... whether during sex or masturbating 😢 Is this a psychological thing because I haven’t been touched by another person in so long?? I have tried all the positions (and I know what usually works for me) and my partner is very skilled..... but no matter what he does he can’t get me to come...! What’s wrong with me??

Btw, not sure if my age has anything to do with it? I’m turning 46 next month, but still horny most of the time 😅