If a guy suffers quite heavily with depression/suicidal thoughts, but told you he loves you and was suggesting that he would commit to you, but you found out he’s using tinder, would you tell him this? We aren’t technically together but we have both expressed our feelings towards each other. He told me he loves me just the other day and I do honestly feel that is the truth, but he has some crappy friends and some issues within himself he hasn’t got a hold of. If some don’t think I should say this then can I please ask what I should do? I don’t want to walk off on him, but I can’t just not tell him I don’t want anything romantic anymore and still remain in his life. He has said he sucks at communicating and I said I’m not the best either and he so he wants us both to try. By the way I know it’s true because I was shown in person.

‘hey me tryin to communicate a lil bit. I have heard you’re using tinder? I don’t doubt what you said the other night at all ___ and I understand we are a work in progress but I just don’t want to be hurt during that. You gotta either leave me out of the mix or stick by the words you told me just the other day, it can’t be both. Let me know? I’m at least always someone who cares when you need.