I was a stay at home mom and recently started a job. I'm almost at my 90 days and plan to ask for a raise. My husband says if they don't give me a raise, I have to quit and he will find a job that pays more. The thing is, I was a stay at home mom for 3.5 yrs and he was begging me to get a job. So, I did. For the first time in my life I found a job I enjoy and has potential to grow. I don't want to quit. I can see myself being at this job for a while. But he is insistent that I quit. While I was a sahm he worked. He couldn't hold a job and would always be calling in. He would complain everyday how his body was in pain (another reason I got a job). He wanted a break from work. I would be guilt tripped everyday because I didn't have a job and now that I do, he wants me to quit. He currently does Lyft and Uber when Im off. Which is only for 2 days. He is a stay at home dad now. I don't want to quit but I also don't want him to be upset. Because when he's upset, it's...not good.