Hey ladies,

I’m a FTM my baby is about 8 months now and we are finally getting into a schedule.

My husband and I don’t really get to be as intimate as we’d like.

Life and just really finding time with a baby is hard. I’m not a big fan of quick sex it really isn’t enjoyable for me but with my daugther you never know when she’ll just randomly wake up etc it’s hard to time time to have nice passionate intimacy.

Anyways, I told my husband that perhaps we should drop off the baby to my MIL for a couple hours and just spend some time togther without any distractions. He agreed but the problem is we couldn’t come up with an excuse of why we need her to babysit (I mean we can say we just want sometime together but that so awkward) we come from a very cultural family and that kinda of talk just is so inappropriate.

I really need some help with coming up with an excuse any suggestions?