Hey ladies, so I guess j just need opinions and maybe advice, I just recently left my 6 month relationship its going on 2 weeks now and I have had guys message me that I used to speak to before in the past I ignored them for a while in hopes my ex would message me wanting to work things out but unfortunately he never responded to wanting to talk things out. I did recently message one of these guys back and I've liked him for a really long time since high-school we have been messaging and kinda hung out twice, well last night this guy and I agreed were not ready for relationships but of course the tension is there for like a friend with benefit thing and don't get me wrong I want to but I've wanted to hold out cuz I tend to be one that let's hints get complicated or I tend to fall fast and hard. He wants to hang again tonight and I just feel awful if I let him have it and scared that he won't message me after. I did tell him like sooner or later I am looking g for relationship but way down the road especially since we both have kiddos, I'm more in a fuck it mood and say do it but I'm a little scared that thats all he wants, what shall I do ???