Is it ok to go days without talking to your partner if so how long is to long without even checking up on them? Idk if I am overreacting for the simple fact I haven't heard from bf in 2 days and I'm pretty sure its because I haven't texted him first but phone works both ways why do I always have to text first in order for us to talk. I'm 30 weeks pregnant with so many complications and he doesn't he text to see how I am doing or feeling today and I'm not texting him just let me know he doesn't care. It's only suspicious because he was never this way before and yet I still see him posting on Instagram but hasn't made any contact with me.