I live in a different country for now and I’m with this guy and I want to stay in the country I’m in so we decided to have a baby and get married so I can become a resident here.. I know it sounds unorthodox but I don’t want to live in the states ever again and I’m truly happy here and at peace.. I have a good paying job here unfortunately I asked my boss to sponser me but can’t cause his shop is a mom and pop shop.. and he makes good money to Afford a child so we won’t struggle.