Not sure about him

Been with hubby for 17 years eat sara both 31 year olds. We have 2 kids oldest is 13 years. He was my first real boyfriend we were on and off again for 3 years and then got pregnant at 16 years old had our daughter so wet never got to do the teenage life or just us together without kids to see how lime would be but very me wrong I live my daughter! For the last 5 years my feeling to my husband had changed a lot we argue 10 times more some were ever have before and the way he’s been treating me isn’t right. We both agreed u wouldn’t get a job with what’s all going on in the world right now since wet have 2 school age kids and someone would need to be home full time with them, I haven’t worked in 6.5 years cuz I got pregnant and lots of complications with it so work let me go ( I was a temp.) but now I need to get a job and make sure I can work Monday three Thursday as he only works weekends cuz his spending habits is bad cuz he thinks he needs to but 30pk of beer every 4 days.