Husband having a hard time

Anyone else’s husband having a really hard time with this? We have been TTC for over a year now, got all the tests done and we’re good. RE said only treatment option for us is <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>. We’re on a wait list for funded <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> but my husband is broken, this week has been especially hard he barely spoke to me. I asked him to talk it out and he said “there’s nothing to talk about.” It kills me to see him so upset. He refuses to talk to anyone like a friend or counsellor or me about his feelings. I have no idea how we can get through this. I feel like its my fault. It’s so upsetting.