Frustrated and losing hope- IUI?

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Just wanted to vent and see if anyone has advice. We’re 8 months TTC going on 9, I’m 31 and really losing hope that it’ll happen naturally.

We’ve had tests done and are both fine. Our doc said we can move to <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> right away after all our tests.

Me and my husband were planning to go stay with family in Florida for the winter (we live in NY). I just looked and there’s no fertility doctors covered by my insurance in the area, the nearest is 1.5 hours away which would be 3 hours round trip, it’s too much.

I’m so stressed over this. I wanted to go to Florida to relax but if we can’t do treatments I’ll feel like I’m wasting months where we could have been proactive. At the same time, I don’t want “infertility” to run my life. What would you do??