Ex angry with me during a mutual breakup 2 days ago and now looks really sad. Why?

Question

On a call with my SO, I told him in a very gentle manner that he hurt my feelings with the way he talked to me the other night and it made me cry (To see the conversation that we had the other night, please click on the images attached). He was actually being super aggressive but I did not tell him that. Told him that I wanted to be emotionally open with him and that I would like to work things out together. He hates confrontation. Instead of communicating his feelings and working things out, he lashed out saying the following:
• I got a glimpse of the future when you brought this up today, and if we got married I would have regretted it and it would have been my fault because I let it happen
• You say things kindly but you're a very mean person for bringing this up
• You think you can control me like how your mom controls your dad (Note: My mom is emotionally and verbally abusive, but I am none of these things), but you can't do that to me
• It's your fault for bringing this up, and now I want to leave
• Let's cut all contact, and if I text you it's because I'm weak to you. If I reach out, tell me no
• Block me and I will do the same
Etc.
I didn't say much other than saying the following because I was overwhelmed by his reaction and was in tears:
• I feel the same way (about us not working)
• I prayed to God about this conversation before we hopped on the call. I was not sure what to do, but I think I've got my answer
• In our relationship, I always prayed to God how blessed and thankful I am to have known you, and now He wants to take away the blessing that I care about most. I'm okay with it (because it is His way)
We mutually ended it, I never blocked him, and he seemed so upset that he wanted to end the call so fast. 
Saw him in passing at church today, but he didn't see me. He looked really sad and off. I've never seen him like that before.
After all that he said to me, why?

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He thought you’d fall for his gaslighting. You didn’t so now he’s upset cause he’s lost you. I wouldn’t go back, he needs to work on himself before being in a relationship if you guys can’t even talk things out without him threatening to break up with you.

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Who cares if he looks said. His the one who said horrible things and u deserve better

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Your ex better stay on ex.

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The things you say he said are not comments made by a person who hates confrontation. His comments come across as an instigator and loving confrontation. 
Also, why were you so hesitant to bring up this conversation with him?  Is it possibly because he jumps to anger when you try to talk to him and then blames you for it because you started an argument?  You shouldn’t have to pray to have a conversation with your partner. Y’all should be able to talk like two normal people. 
He thought you’d be begging to come back but you said you agreed it wasn’t working out and at that point he was saying everything he could to make you feel like 💩. All I can say is go shine your light elsewhere because this guy doesn’t deserve you and you deserve better.

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What did he say the other night that hurt your feelings, and what did you say to him that hurt his feelings? Whatever you brought up, you have the right to bring it up, but there’s a fine line between controlling your partner and simply expressing how you feel about something. It seems that your partner thinks you are trying to be controlling in someway, so I would take that information and see within yourself if it could possibly be true. 
If someone ever said to me that they prayed and told God that they were grateful to know me, but now he’s taking them away… I would think that was a crazy person. God’s not taking him away, whatever happened between you is causing strain on your relationship and you each need to take equal accountability for it, not blame it on God.￼￼ Think about your part in it, and he should think about his part. Then you each need to take accountability and come together to resolve it. ￼