I need advice

So I just started dating one of my friends ge is 36 and I'm 24( keep opinions of the age difference to yourself please) he doesn't believe in sex before marriage which also means he's a virgin. I'm obviously not actually far from me I've been with 38 guys which also includes the times I was raped( also don't judge on how manh guys I've been with I was used by most of those guys for just 1 thing). He understands my past and knows I've had sex before. I like him alot I just haven't been in a non sexuak relationship since I was in high school before I was having sex. And on top of it I don't know how to date especially since I've only ever been in abusive relationships. Can I get advice please